The rules of tradition say that women aren't to pursue the man, that it's human nature for the man to do the hunting. Some even say it's unladylike to flirt or show aggression, or do nothing more than show a bit of approval or interest should he notice us and approach us first.
So by nature or tradition (which seems perpetually outdated), a man is more likely to have what he wants, based solely on him being the only one in pursuit.
I just so happen to like the thrill of the hunt, although it rarely ever works in my favor.
That's what I get for going against the grain.
